A 9 Day Challenge + Novena for Couples

Mary, Undoer of Blocks

Every couple fights, but not every couple has support in repairing.

When our ability to repair with our spouse is blocked, everything in life feels harder! The hurt begins to takes up all of our mental, emotional (and even spiritual) space, and not only robs us of the special moments in marriage, but can make us feel like the worst version of ourselves. But disconnection isn’t bad - it’s inevitable and a necessary ingredient to intimacy. Together, with Mary’s help, we want to help you turn towards moments of disconnection as doorways to deeper intimacy and reconciliation.

The #1 predictor of divorce is the inability to repair.

Do you ever feel:

✓ Disconnected or distant from your spouse?

✓ Stuck in the same fight over and over?

✓ Disheartened or discouraged?

✓ Out of control with frustration?

✓ Withdrawn or removed from the relationship?

✓ Trapped in a cycle with no good move?

✓ Thinking about separation or divorce?

✓ Arguing constantly about sex or money?

These knots tell us it’s time to go deeper in our relationship. But if repair is getting blocked for you and your spouse, you’re not alone. We can help.

Just as death was essential for Christ’s resurrection, disconnection is essential to intimacy in your marriage.

Join marriage specialists, Drs. Jonathan and Alexandra Marcotte, as together with Our Lady Undoer of Knots, they come alongside you to make sense of the pain in your marriage, and organize the blocks that have built up overtime so you can experience deep relationship repair and intimacy with your spouse again.

Coming Soon!

October 25 - November 2, 2024

A Faith Integrated Approach.

Using the Gold Standard for marital repair, and the Blessed Mother’s model of boundless compassion, we want to offer quick and actionable reflections to help you and your spouse get success with reconciliation, through:

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Organizing what keeps you blocked, in your best attempts to repair.

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Accessing the pain that fuels your blocks, so you can feel God’s love even in your hardest moments.

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Learning how to reframe disconnection in terms of God’s plan for marriage so the roadmap for repair can become more clear.

We’ve found that when couples can begin to organize their pain in terms of God’s design, they are better able to mirror the inner life of the Trinity, with freedom to become a total gift of self again.

What can you expect during the 9-day challenge + Novena?

  • Join us as we pray the Novena to Mary, Undoer of Knots together with a special intention to God for curiosity, clarity, and compassion in the places where repair has been blocked between you.

  • Each day, we'll offer more organization, clarity, and support for you in your hardest moments through brief 20-25 minute videos that talk about:

    • The Neuroscience of Attachment

    • Validated process of repair supported by over 30-years of outcome data

    • Compassion and mercy as modeled by Our Lady of Fair Love and God the Father

  • Streamline how you tailor what you're learning to your relationship with our downloadable content and exercises - designed to support you during the 9-days Challenge and after!

  • Join Drs. Jonathan and Alexandra for Live Office Hours, where you'll have a chance to ask questions and hear our team respond to other couples.

Join our 9-Day Challenge + Novena

Hosted Live, Online: October 25 - November 2, 2024

Know and be known by your partner again, even in your toughest moments.